Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet.
I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am ho more...
Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet.
I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am hoping that working the blogs will help me to start to heal. I see some of the same people on here and to them I say Hello. I also see some new people and to them I say welcome to LF and good luck on your search. There was some people on here I had started becoming friends with and as a result of trying to make her happy I let these people slip out of my life, to them (ok the truth to her) I can only say I am so sorry. My wish for this person as well as my ex is much happiness. Looking forward to meeting new and old friends---Tom less...
Thank you all for the well wishes and the comments. It's correct that now I don't have to wonder "what if" I think a lot of people wonder this when a long relationship ends but now I know, maybe I should consider myself lucky. I'm sure I will one of these days. Good luck to you all---Tom
Quoting: Originally posted by truefriendinme BigTom: HEY! How the heck are ya'! I am glad to see you back. There are only a few really good guys on the site to chat and blog with (they know who they are), so this gives us girls some more variety! (he he he) I'm still here, and still blogging. Hope to see you around! You were missed...--True
Hey True, just love the new picks, so nice to see. xx
Sorry things didn't go the way you were hoping.
It's nice to see you again, just wish it was under better conditions. Keep your head up, have faith that things will get a little better each day.
Wow, sorry to hear of your hurt. I am glad you are back on as well, no matter who is in your life remember to keep your own personal space, keep connnected with friends old and new. They really help you through things. It is hard to know who to trust on here, hard enough to know in the real world. My ex is on here looking for a younger female and it looks as if he has found her. I wish her the best, she will, no doubt be hurt as well. Good luck to you.
BigTom: HEY! How the heck are ya'! I am glad to see you back. There are only a few really good guys on the site to chat and blog with (they know who they are), so this gives us girls some more variety! (he he he) I'm still here, and still blogging. Hope to see you around! You were missed...--True
How awful for you. I'm so so sorry for the pain you feel.
I think every failed relationshiop teaches us something about ourselves and helps us to become the person we need to be before we meet our soulmate. It may be too soon to feel that, but you are one step closer.
And I'm not sure who your special friend was, but maybe, just maybe...?
Sorry that it didn't work out bigtom... and it will take some time for that wound to heal. Unfortunately, very few relationships work the second time around but at least you gave it a shot and it's not something you'll wonder "what if" about anymore. And you don't have to tell anyone here what the reason is it didn't work... it is none of our business... that is a private thing between you and her. Just try to learn from it, put it behind you and move on. Ms. Right is out there for more...
Sorry that it didn't work out bigtom... and it will take some time for that wound to heal. Unfortunately, very few relationships work the second time around but at least you gave it a shot and it's not something you'll wonder "what if" about anymore. And you don't have to tell anyone here what the reason is it didn't work... it is none of our business... that is a private thing between you and her. Just try to learn from it, put it behind you and move on. Ms. Right is out there for you... just be patient and you'll find her. Good to see you back! less...
I do agree with you about working things out on the blogs, I think they are wonderful, as are the people that contribute to them, and they have helped me work out lots of issues, better than therapy. lol
Quoting: Originally posted by bigtom77 Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of t...
Sorry things didn't work out for you and your ex, but it's nice to see you back. more...
Quoting: Originally posted by bigtom77 Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet.
I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am hoping that working the blogs will help me to start to heal. I see some of the same people on here and to them I say Hello. I also see some new people and to them I say welcome to LF and good luck on your search. There was some people on here I had started becoming friends with and as a result of trying to make her happy I let these people slip out of my life, to them (ok the truth to her) I can only say I am so sorry. My wish for this person as well as my ex is much happiness. Looking forward to meeting new and old friends---Tom
Sorry things didn't work out for you and your ex, but it's nice to see you back. less...
