I don't know about anyone else, but is there life after the kids are grown and gone? I'm so lonely sometime I can't stand it. I have always had a house full of kids and family and now I'm alone and I can't cope sometimes. It's hard to even find a friend on line who will write. Even pen pales would be great, just someone to talk too.

i hope so! im not at that stage of my life yet i still have the kids running around the house but i still get lonely. i dont have anybody to share my feelings with that wont judge me. i would love to be your pen pal.xxoxoxx

Hello Debbie85653, I will be your friend. Even in a city the size of Phoenix I get lonely sometimes but I do get to be around other singles at least once a week at my church. I did however go to Spain last year by myself. I like that this site has web blogs.

That is why I came to this website originally. It was for pen pals. I just really wanted to find people I could relate too who would talk and not prejudge. I have alot of friends but we are all in different stages in our lives and its hard to spend time with each other like we use to. I had hoped this would be away to fill in those times when I really needed to talk to someone.

Hello there Lonelyheart !

I would love to talk with you and I am a sagittarius too !

Yes, there is life. Where? Well, I'm still looking but I've found hints of one here and there.

I like to go to the local parks and watch the kids play. If no one wants to go with you -- pack yourself up a picnic and go anyway!

Sometimes I drive into town and walk part of the riverfront park (it's about a 3 mile span). I sit along the river bank and read. Now and then someone passes by and stops to chat for a few minutes.

I also take myself to the movies on occasion, go for ice cr  more...

Yes, there is life. Where? Well, I'm still looking but I've found hints of one here and there.

I like to go to the local parks and watch the kids play. If no one wants to go with you -- pack yourself up a picnic and go anyway!

Sometimes I drive into town and walk part of the riverfront park (it's about a 3 mile span). I sit along the river bank and read. Now and then someone passes by and stops to chat for a few minutes.

I also take myself to the movies on occasion, go for ice cream, or just sit on a bench at the mall watching life walk by.

I get lonely too -- more than I'd like to admit. But when lonely becomes too much to bear, then that's when I hit the streets so to speak.

If you want to write/chat, let me know. Online friends are wonderful! less...