So I'm Kayla and I'm new. I really dont know how this site works lol.... or how to do anything at that matter can some one explain it to me or show me how to do everything not even everything just the basics =]

Hi Kayla,
You're off to good start - saying hello in the blogs by introducing yourself. Read the blogs, comment on the blogs, wink at who you like and see what happens.
Take everything said with a grain of salt and if it sounds too good to be true - it probably is.
Don't be naive - you can't believe everything you read/hear but be open to the possibility of finding what you're looking for.
Enjoy and good luck.

Good start as far as I can see. You have a nice pic up and you found the blogs. I would suggest reading some of these to see what the other ladies are saying. Good luck to you---Tom